Orgasm Denial

Here’s a technique for punishing a male that will appeal to a number of our readers who are Domme or Switch oriented:

Firmly restrain and gag your male sub in a face-up spread eagle position. Separate and tightly tie each one of his testicles with soft, thin, hemp rope. After wrapping the rope in multiple passes around each testicle, continue to firmly wrap the exposed section of his ball sac all the way from his two separated balls down to the base of his penis. This will pull his testicles away from his body and will make his erection very hard with tight, tight, skin.

Next, take a large spring-loaded ladies hairclip (the kind with spikes inside) and gently clamp it around his erection about two inches from the base. At first the pain will be fairly mild, but the constant tension of the springs will soon cause the spikes to push in to the soft nerve-filled tissue. This will cause significant pain.

With well oiled fingers, stimulate his erection by stroking it with your fingertips. The pleasure of your fingers on his hard skin will counter-balance the pain from the clip, thus heightening the pleasure/pain paradox.

Stroke slowly and watch his distress. Take your time and tease him without mercy. Allow your fingernails to lightly score his shaft. Eventually, allow him to approach a climax. As this occurs, slow even further and reduce stimulation to hold him on the edge. When you decide to make him come, watch carefully for the start of his ejaculation. Barely touch him. Gently squeeze his balls together. He will be extremely aroused at this point and frantic for an orgasm. When a steady stream of semen starts to slowly flow from his penis, stop all stimulation. Ejaculation is in motion and will continue through to completion, however, without the necessary stimulation he will not be able to achieve an orgasm. He will be left spent and very frustrated.

Cruel? Yes…but extremely exquisite.

Note: As with most play, certain dangers exist. There are numerous websites where one can go to educate themselves before engaging in this type of activity.